Author : Susan Russo
"Tis better to be alone than in bad company." -George WashingtonSo your relationship is over, but you just want to see him/her just
one more time. You can if you really have to but if you can be strong
and make a clean break; you will be on the road to recovery sooner
rather than later.This is a big one. If there is one thing you can do for yourself that
will help you move on with your life the fastest...it will be to avoid
the on-again-off-again dance that so many people experience when
ending a relationship.If it's over...it's over!Deep down in your heart you know it, but many people hope against
hope that if they go back just one more time, things will work out.So...they go back and try. 99% of the time it's the same sad outcome,
minus a couple of precious months that would have been better spent
in trying to heal themselves.Don't try to be friends. Don't meet for dinner to see them one more time.
Don't talk on the phone and rehash the past and don't let them continue
to be a part of your life when they're not.I know it's difficult to make the break, but be strong and keep your
distance. It will make it easier on you in the long run. Instead, if you
choose to keep in touch; you will only prolong the process. You will
have to go through it anyway, so why put it off and make it harder
on yourself?All of our choices come with consequences. When you choose to see him one
more time or talk to him again and again, the consequence is: you
will begin to heal later rather than sooner. You will waste more of your
precious time and you will hold onto the hope that things might work out,
which will only be a disappointment to you in the long run.Making a clean break and acceptance go hand in hand. The "clean break"
is evidence that you've "accepted" that it's over and you are ready to
move on with your life.So...if you really want to be friends. Allow yourself the time to get over
the pain of the break-up and then if you still want to; you can resume
your friendship. Keep busy, find anything else to do, just don't go back
there one more time.Remember, take the right steps to heal your broken heart and...You will survive!Read more about it at: http://www.whystay.comSusan Russo is the President of Pinnacle Thought Inc. Publisher for books and resources which provide inspiration, self-empowerment and the tools and strategies to help move you toward personal success and fulfillment. She is editor of "You've Got Power"
ezine and author of "There Is Life After What's-His-Name.
Keyword : relationships, love, break-up, heartache, divorce, boyfriend, girlfriend, moving on, healing hearts
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