Author : Susan Stewart
The New Year is here, Nicole is back in school and the in-laws have
returned home. Cindy should be breathing a sigh of relief but instead
she is once again feeling overwhelmed- this time due to post-Christmas
clutter. The tree needs to be taken down, decorations put away, and she
has no idea where to put all the new toys (the playroom and bedrooms are
already over crowded!). Then there is the issue of the piles of
Christmas cards, letters and pictures which have overtaken the house.
And of course their annual Christmas letter that hasn't been written
yet. Hmm.... let's shoot for Valentine's Day.After slamming a diet coke for energy, Cindy starts taking off the
ornaments and you can bet Megan and Zachary were right there to help.
While Cindy was digging through the garage to find a box for the
ornaments, Megan and Zachary decided to decorate the entire house with
the ornaments that just came off the tree. The one hour project has
turned into an all day adventure - or should I say fiasco?Several days later, Cindy gets a rare moment alone and decides to
knock out that Christmas/Valentine's letter. Writing the letter wasn't
too much trouble but locating all the updated addresses was something
she hadn't bargained for. "There must be a better way", she thinks to
herself as she searches the house for Christmas envelopes and crosses
out the old addresses in her address book.Before she knows it, Zachary is up from his nap and it is time to
pick up Nicole from school. On the way home, she stops at the mailbox to
pick up the mail. The mail gets tossed on the empty front seat which
slides to the floor as she turns the corner. From the floor of the van,
the mail next makes its way to the kitchen counter where it is again
dumped. Before Cindy can even consider picking up a piece of mail, she
is bombarded with questions about homework, the kids fighting over the
snacks and the ubiquitous question of "what is for dinner?"The dinner scramble begins with throwing the pile of mail into a
corner so she can prepare dinner on the kitchen counter. A few minutes
later when Mike calls to say he invited a co-worker over for dinner, the
pile of mail gets moved again. This time it is thrown into a bag and
shoved in the closet. It seemed like a good plan until she couldn't find
a few bills a week or two later. She vaguely remembered putting them in
a bag. Trouble was, she couldn't remember what she did with the bag.
Cindy wishes there was something she could do to stop this exhausting
cycle.The New Year has begun and with Brook back in school, Tracy is
anxious to get her Christmas decorations put away and her house back in
order. During Alex's nap time she gets the ornaments box out of the
garage, wraps them and puts them away. Later that evening she and Kevin
will take care of the lights and take apart their tree. By the end of
the week, she should have all of the decorations taken care of.The following morning after dropping Brook off at school, Tracy
stops to pick up the mail. It is much easier for her to deal with the
mail in the morning than at the end of the day. When she gets home she
sorts the mail in categories and puts any junk mail straight into the
trash. The kids need attention so she will deal with the "needs action"
items later.On Saturday, 4 year old Brandon, Brook and Tracy sit down for the
special time they have planned together. Tracy grabs the envelope with
all the pictures she received over the holidays, a paper cutter and the
double sided tape. Her plan is to "crop" down the photos and tape them
to a bulletin board which will later be hung in the hallway known as her
"hall of fame". As Tracy replaces the old pictures with new ones, she
gives the kids the old pictures to cut and paste into their own
notebooks. The kids enjoy this creative adventure with mom and it also
gives them a chance to talk about friends and family.Most mornings Tracy gets up in the wee hours of the morning to
enjoy her coffee in silence before the rest of the family's day begins.
For the next couple of months, she will also use this time to read one
or two Christmas letters from the "to read" pile. When she has finished
reading them, she puts her initial in the corner so John knows she has
read that one. Later, when he has had a chance to read it, he knows it
can be thrown away. It takes quite awhile to get through them
but at least this way she really has a chance to catch up on her many
friends' lives all across the country.Another project Tracy hopes to complete this month is updating the
addresses on her computer data base. She has all of her Christmas card
envelopes in the "needs action" slot of her mail organizer and will take
several chunks of time to check them with her database. This process
will save her precious time later in the year.Tips for dealing with the mail:1) Most people happen to get the mail at a very stressful time of day
(i.e. on their way home from work or picking up the kids). When they
walk in the door there are other pressing issues, so the mail gets
thrown on the kitchen counter or table. Keep in mind that the time of
day your mail is delivered does not have to determine when you get the
mail. Get it when it is convenient for you and you have time to sort
through it.2) The amount of junk mail that arrives daily in our mailboxes can be
overwhelming. Open the mail by a shredder or garbage can if possible so
the junk can be weeded out immediately. It is also a little known fact
that you can write the Mail Preference Service Direct Marketing
Association at PO Box 282 Carmel, NY 15012 and ask to have your name,
phone number and address permanently removed form all direct marketing
and pre-screening databases.3) Once the junk mail has been tossed, the remainder of the mail must be
sorted. I have found the following categories to be helpful in sorting
mail: Bills, Needs Action, To Read, To Be Filed, and Donation
Opportunities. If there are several adults living in one residence, it
may be helpful to sort by name instead. Using a mail organizer with
slots, trays, or files that are clearly labeled will help with this
process.4) The sorting is only effective if you set a time in your schedule to
deal with the items in the various categories. Start a new habit this
year of reading one piece of mail with your cereal and coffee in the
morning or before your favorite TV show begins. Set a certain day of the
week that you pay bills. Think of the time you will save not searching
all over for them! Put it on a "to do list" to file 10 items once a week
or allocate that job to a child that is old enough to handle that
responsibility. To kids, filing is fun! Set time aside each week in your
schedule to deal with "needs action" items.5) Let go of the guilt of not saving every coupon that makes its way
through your door. Look at the expiration date and ask yourself how
likely it is that you will actually use it before it expires. If you do
decide to save some coupons, keep a small drawer designated to coupons
or a small expandable envelope in your car so you have them with you
when you spontaneously decide to stop at Linens n Things on your way
home from work.Susan Stewart is a professional organizer and the founder of Perfectly Placed
Professional Organization and Design in the Phoenix area. Perfectly Placed specializes
in bringing peace and order to busy families through organization. You can find out
more about Susan and Perfectly Placed at her website: http://www.perfectlyplaced.org
Keyword : mail, clutter, pay bills, coupons, to do list, sorting, mail organizer, junk mail, data base
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